Sunday, November 23, 2008

Mo-vember


Friends and family,Thank you for the generous outpouring of support for my Mo-vember campaign! In the first two weeks, I raised over $150. Although this is a great start, there is still much work to be done in this final week. Due to the large international presence on my project, the competition between Australia, US, Canada, Italy, Germany, etc has really intensified. I'm not far behind in the total tally, so please help me out! When considering your donation, think about the following:

Depression affects 1 in 6 men....most don't seek help. Untreated depression is a leading risk factor for suicide
Last year in Australia, 18,700 men were diagnosed with prostate cancer and more than 2,900 died of prostate cancer - equivalent to the number of women who will die from breast cancer annually


I know this money goes to Australian charities, but they need our US-grown generocity as well. I've attached another picture [sorry last week's didn't come through] so you can see the progress of my 'mo'. We really need to kick-it into high gear this week. Just before you sit down with friends and family for Thanksgiving dinner, remember to give thanks to Sean's mo. Many thanks for your support and best wishes for the upcoming holidays!
Sean
To donate to my Mo, click this link https://www.movember.com/au/donate/donate-details.php?action=sponsorlink&rego=2084737&country=au and donate online using your credit card or PayPal account.
P.S. 'Mo' refers to mustache and NOT mohawk. I know the spelling is funky, but this is Australia ;-)
The money raised by Movember helps raise awareness of men's health issues and is donated to two great causes - the Prostate Cancer Foundation of Australia and beyondblue - the national depression initiative. The PCFA and beyondblue will use the funds to fund research and increase support networks for those men who suffer from prostate cancer and depression.

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Baileys Explore the Bays, Bondi & Bronte

And the answer is... Sherry! Now what is the question? No Jeopardy in Australia, and no prizes for a correct answer - it's just more fun to start an entry this way. If you guessed, "Who's the first friend to visit us in Australia?", then you'd be right. Sherry and her mom were 'in town' to visit brother, Dan who is studying abroad in Surfer's Paradise. We met halfway in Sydney. Now your probably thinking, lucky guy, gets to do a semester abroad in Surfer's Paradise. Well, since Dan is in school in sunny San Diego and gave up the US summer to be in Australia's winter, I'm not sure if he made out so well. And he didn't even bring his surf board to Surfers Paradise! Nonetheless, the blog is about us and not Dan so we'll move on.

We met Sherry and the family in Sydney to show them around town. What they didn't know, is that we have not made it to all of the tourist destinations in and around Sydney either. Melissa's goal: get our group to Bondi to discover the most popular beach destination in Sydney.

The weekend started on Friday night with Melissa taking the White family to Darling Harbour for dinner and drinks. They ended up partying at a club – yeah, they went clubbing! Of course the boys wouldn’t leave Melissa and Sherry alone which meant they couldn’t catch up – but who goes to a club to talk?! With the group celebrated Dan’s 21st birthday, the drinks were flying. Although I was not there, I understand it was a good time and everyone looked well recovered when I met them for lunch on Saturday.

After lunch, we hopped on the Bondi Explorer which takes passengers by bus along Sydney Harbour by way of Woolloomooloo, Potts Point, Rose Bay, and Watson Bay. The girls were upto all sorts of antics [see left] and we were all trying to escape the flies. The Whites learned first-hand what its like to be completely bothered by the Aussie flies. I'm not sure if anyone swallowed one on purpose, but they were quite a nusaince when we grabbed a snack on the beach at Bondi.
Sunday, we said good-bye to Sherry and the family and met with Leela and Pete for brunch at Bronte Beach. You may remember a previous entry that described the beautiful Manly beach. We fell in love with Manly last year, introduced our families to its charm during their visits to 'Oz, and have already been back again to visit this summer. Well, Bronte is just as spectacular. Carved out of the rock and nestled in an ancient river bed, Bronte has it all: a small-town feel with local shops and cafes, a large grassy lawn with picnic benches and grilles, a sea-sides lap pool, and a beautiful white sand beach. Leela and Pete – Leela works at CEB with Melissa and is from the London office while her husband Pete is a ‘yank’ from California – frequent Bronte on the weekends and took the opportunity to show us around. Brunch was great, the views from the cliff walk were great, and even getting caught with Pete in the strong rip current was great!

Monday, October 13, 2008

Melissa's Asian Adventure (Part 2 - Hong Kong)






I arrived in Hong Kong Friday night after a very lovely flight on Singapore Air - one of the nicest airlines I've ever traveled. Now SARs is still alive and well here in China. When you go through customs you need to go through a temperature check and many people are wearing masks. My temperature was normal so I proceeded to the money exchange. The lady asked and do you want a return (round trip) ticket for the airport express. I said, naturally, I don't know do I? In fact I did, so I was off to the train. I learned it's much cheaper and easier if you don't speak Chinese/Cantonese to take public transport. It's only about $70 ($10 usd) to get to and from the airport. The dollar is about 7 to one. I am getting a lot of use out of my 7 multiplication tables. Dinner should be about $300 that takes a little getting used too!
When I got to the hotel, it was dark and late so I went to bed. The sun woke me early and out of my floor to ceiling wall of windows on the 37 floor (one perk of traveling so much) I got my first glimpse of HK Island. WOW! This place makes NYC look like a small town. Hong Kong is a region made up of several islands. HK Island, Lantau, the New Territories (Kowloon), and a little Island that's how to Disney Land.
I wasn't completely unprepared for my first trip to China. I had been corresponding quite frequently with the concierge at the hotel so had a good itinerary laid out. I set off to do a self guide walking tour of HK Island. The city is steep! Much more so than San Francisco. Most streets even have steps on them. And there is a cross city outdoor escalator that runs above the street and takes you completely across the city from the low end to the high. There were people everywhere!
On Sunday I took the train, then the bus to Lantau Island to Po Lin Monastery. Home to the largest outdoor, seated, bronze Buddha in the world. I am not sure why it needs all of those qualifiers, I can't imagine there's a taller Buddha of any kind or indoors! I need to read a little more about this place because all of the signs and reading material was in Chinese. All I can say is that it was an intense and beautiful place. People were holding burning incense, bowing and praying. There was a temple structure with a fire burning and people were placing bags of folded paper inside. My dad probably knows why. If he reads this, he should post a comment and let us all know.
Anyway, so I took the bus to the monastery. Why the bus? Well when I got off the train people split in two directions. The white people went to the scenic cable car terminal and the Asian people went to the bus terminal. I followed them (although the agreed upon plan with the concierge had me going the other way).
The bus ride was an adventure!! We wound up a very steep mountain at high speeds on a one lane road meant for two way traffic. The locals even shrieked every once in a while. The scenery was the amazing Chinese countryside - mountains, lakes, and waterfalls all on the edge of the ocean.
So I figured that after spending the weekend in HK, I was now an expert and I could easily find my way to the offices for my meetings. Well, I got there, but it was an adventure.
First, maps are NOT drawn to scale and it is HOT. A nice local man walked me to the train station. It should be noted that I was on the right track it was just a lot further than the 500 m the map said. He was very nice, but a fast walker and only spoke chinese so I was speaking english and him chinese, running down the street. Me in a suit and him in running gear. Thank goodness I changed to flats at the last minute. Then two trains later and another 500m (read, more like 2km). I arrived at the address - I think. The address is written on the building in Chinese. So I walked up to the office and as I looked in there was a table set up with a white table cloth incense burning and fruit everywhere. The building name was all in chinese so I looked down at my map to the left and to the right. I had no choice but to go in and ask for help. It's a good thing I did, because I was in the right place. Oh no if it was this difficult to determine the right building, how hard would it be to have a conversation! But then the executive came down to meet me and it was a true "ahhhh" moment with a halo of light around her. She was Scottish! (Yes, I am that good at differentiating white people now... jk, I read her bio).

Melissa's Asian Adventure (Part 1 - Singapore)



I am embarking on a 10 day solo trip to Singapore and Hong Kong. We tried to work it out so Sean could join, but given he had just taken several days off for the Bailey's trip and I needed to go in October, we just couldn't make it work. Fortunately, I was able to ease into it by going to Singapore first ("official" language English). I had a packed schedule of meetings with IT, Compliance and Legal executives to discuss our plans for further expansion into the region. I also met with the CEO of one of our business partners to discuss some new, mutually beneficial opportunities.
Given the flight was $10,000 cheaper if I flew in on Sunday, I did that. This gave me the opportunity to explore the city a bit. Singapore is an "international" city. Meaning city=Singapore, state=Singapore and country=Singapore. There are not many historical sites to see given the newness of the city and their policy to knock buildings down every 99 years. Singapore is very wealthy, with a very generous and well structured government. 85% of people live in high rise public housing (97% of people in public housing own the unit); 10% in private high rise apartments; 5% in houses - if you live in a house you are filthy rich (foreigners are not allowed to buy houses). Singapore is the most densely populated city in the world. There are 4 million people living in 600 sq km. 40% of that is reclaimed land (they filled the ocean in with sand to make more room). There is no unemployment. If you don't work, you don't get paid. There are enough jobs for everyone and training available to help people get them. They do not understand the American way. Everyone is required to save 30% of every paycheck. This is used to buy apartments and for retirement.
While there are a lot of Westerners living in Singapore now, most of meetings were with people from either Singapore or Malaysia (singapore is not part of malaysia). This is not that surprising. What is surprising was the number of women executives I met with. (This country would have no problem accepting Hillary!) In my time in this job I have become quite skilled in recognising the person I'd be meeting with - profiling if you will. I would have been wrong every time this week. My last meeting of the week was over lunch with the General Counsel of one of the largest companies in the world - a woman. So I asked her about it. She explained it to me quite simply. In Singapore you are required to complete high school. Because women are smarter and more hard working they get into better colleges and since they are smarter and work harder they get better jobs and beacuased they are smarter and work harder they get promoted more quickly. We got along beautifully! That is until the end of the meal...
Well, she took me to a Japanese restaurant. Since moving to Australia I've become much more open to "different" food; however, this was pushing it - there were a lot of things on my plate I didn't recognise and there was so much of it. I thought I did a good job. When the waitress came around to ask if I was finished (I assumed that's what she said - I really had no idea) and I said yes, my host said, "oh no she's not" and made me eat it all!!!! Mental note: no more lunch meetings in other countries.

Friday, September 26, 2008

Family Trip take two

With August done and dusted, Melissa and I were looking forward to the prospects of spring. When we arrived in Melbourne last December, summer had pretty much taken off. Although December weather can be pretty unsettled – and last December was no different – it is still pretty warm and the flies are abundant! We look forward to enjoying a Melbourne spring. Like a Melbourne summer, there are so many things to do in and around the city, and we have big plans for each month. During September, the Bailey clan toured Down Under. [More on that adventure below] Upcoming in October, read about Melissa’s trip to Singapore and Hong Kong. November is known for its Melbourne Cup Day – a public holiday to celebrate horse racing [think Kentucky Derby on a Tuesday and only Kentucky gets the public holiday]. And for December, unfortunately it is not a trip back east to see the family… it’s a trip to Thailand! Consider those your advertisements for the upcoming blog entries.

So when the Bailey family heard Melissa and I were moving to Melbourne, of course they were excited. What an opportunity for the both of us. They weren’t too sure if they’d make the trip around the globe to check out our situation. It’s a long plane ride, an expensive plane ride, need to get time off of work, etc. You know the excuses! With some constant prodding by my mom’s work colleagues and family friends [many who had visited the country before], and with the help of some stellar blog entries, they were convinced to pack their bags and spend two weeks Down Under. Planning started early but it wasn’t until Melissa’s parents visited in June that the plans began to solidify. My mom heard of all the great things we did with the Murrays and said, “We’ll do that too!” …Hold on. As fun of a trip that was, Melissa and I are not doing the same vacation all over again 6 weeks later. We had to get creative. But it’s not that hard because there are sooo many amazing things to do here. Even now, I’m worried that we won’t get to see some of the coolest parts of Australia before we leave. Melissa and I brainstormed some ideas and then in July when we were home we made the plans. Similar to the Murray’s trip, we would hit three major cities. Sydney and Melbourne were a given. Instead of the tropic north of Queensland we choose the surfing mecca of Surfers Paradise. Just south of Brisbane, Surfer’s Paradise is known for its college town feel, large and luxurious accommodations, and of course for its impeccable surfing conditions. With the plans made, the flights purchased, the hotels reserved, and cars rented, we were all set. Except for one hitch…

Mom and Melissa had a long flight but the itinerary wasn’t too bad. Bradley [Connecticut] to O’Hare to LAX to Sydney – a decent way to get across the country. For those not familiar, there is one United flight per day between LAX and Sydney. Likewise, there is one per day between San Francisco and Sydney. All domestic flights funnel you to LAX or SFO in the early evening so you can make the late evening departure over the Pacific. If you miss the flight, you’re waiting until the next night. I got that unfortunate email mid-day Thursday, ‘mom and Melissa missed their LA connection.’ Eeek, not good. It was a United mistake so at least they were taken care of with a night in a local hotel. But Melissa and I were already on our way to Sydney to meet them. So we continued on and had a free Saturday to check out parts of the city I have not seen before and hang out with some friends we rarely see.

Mom and Melissa arrived early Sunday morning – a day late – but much chipper than I had anticipated. It seems a night layover prior to the Pacific jump really helps with the jetlag. We were already down a day and had much to see in Sydney so we were quickly off to the Blue Mountains [ironically, outside the city]. The day was pretty gross – cool, windy, rainy – just the type of weather you’re looking for when hiking through the mountains ;-) We started with lunch at the Hattery in Katoomba. We let the brief monsoon pass and then made our way to check out the Three Sisters. [Despite your best guess at what that name refers to, it’s a rock formation] We attempted several of the trails originating there but most were flooded due to the rain. We headed over to another side of the valley and traversed some of the trails there. The day concluded with a cable car ride across the canyon that started off pretty ordinary. On the ride back, a thunderstorm rolled in and transformed the straight line cable ride into more of an amusement park attraction. It was exciting!

Due to the loss of Saturday, Monday turned into see-all-of-Sydney-you-can-see in one day. We drained most of the morning in the QVB (Queen Victoria Building) and Darling Harbour [the other Harbour]. There was an Olympic celebration parade through the CBD that we elected to miss – they aren’t our Olympians – but we were affected by the parade nonetheless. I thought the double-decker tour bus would be the best way to see the city highlights and get us to the real harbour quick. Well, my first goal was right on! We saw several of the major sites and in-style aboard the bus that has no roof. But with the mid-town traffic diverted to accommodate the parade route, the ride was not quick. We merely had to shorten our trip across the harbour to Manly and skip out on the Botanical Gardens – after all, it’s just a garden. The plan worked perfectly; Mom and Melissa got to see the wonderful sites of the Harbour Bridge and Opera House at Circular Quay and got to experience the beach town of Manly.

The trip moved onto Surfer’s Paradise. The hotel was a ridiculous resort – thanks Melissa! We gave my family the suite. And boy was it sweeet! Three separate exits to three separate private patios - none more that a quick walk to the pool or beach. Similar to Sydney, we started the trip outside the city in the hinterlands. I introduced Melissa (sister) and mom to the rainforests of Queensland. I think they were impressed. But this leg of the trip hinged on one specific activity and that one activity alone could make or break this whole adventure – whale watching. I had booked us on a day long excursion out of Brisbane – about a 90 min drive north – to coincide with Melissa’s (wife) work commitments. It could not have worked out better. This was one of the best whale watching excursions in Brisbane and the timing worked perfectly with Melissa’s work day. I wasn’t prepared for the call I received at 7AM that morning. Our trip for the day was cancelled. The reason, the sea was too choppy from all the wind. Eeek! We quickly aborted the Brisbane trip [letting Melissa make the drive for work herself] and found an excursion leaving from our very own marina not more than 100 meters away. Pheew! Needless to say, I can see why the Brisbane group cancelled their trip. There were people ralphing all over the boat. We managed to avoid most of it by staying on the upper, back deck of the boat. The consequence was that we were missing all the good shots of the whale pods the boat was tracking. We sucked it up and walked through the main infirmary – I mean main deck – and grabbed a couple of seats on the lower front deck. It was well worth it. We tracked several pods for about an hour as they surfaced every couple of minutes. It was amazing to watch them respond to our noises and movement. Let slapped their tales, raised their fins, and blew spray out of their blow holes. It was pretty amazing.
The trip continued in Melbourne where Melissa and I got to introduce my family to our Melbourne way of life. It started as most Friday’s do – Melissa and I both went to work. That let my family relax at our house for awhile and get acclimated with Port Melbourne. Over the weekend, we introduced them to the wines of the Yarra Valley [read the last posting], the Surf Coast [part of the Great Ocean Road] and even braved the rain to see the Phillip Island penguins. Monday and Tuesday they spent the days checking out St Kilda, the Bay, and the Melbourne CBD. As my mom puts it, “you could spend a week alone just exploring the city!” So true.

It has been great to share our new home with both families. Both will agree that we totally lucked out in the house that we are renting and that Albert Park isn’t such a bad place to call home. It was great to see the family so much in such a short period of time. Unfortunately, we will not make it home for the holidays. Have some turkey and wine for us… we love you!

P.S. the trip did end on a sour note as my grandpa Newton (my mom’s dad) passed away very unexpectedly after church on Sunday. Mom had just visited with him in July and he was a fit and energetic as you’d expect any 80 year old to be. She also spoke with him while she spent the night in LA. He leaves behind friends and family that loved him and will miss him very much. Luckily, my mom was able to redirect her return flight to meet family in Reno and then in Kansas City.